Because maybe you’re actually supposed to do whatever she’s doing. But you decided you’re too ‘above it all’. Too scared or too moral to make whatever decisions you need to make to easier to put your palms together for someone else.
Jealousy is telling you that you’re insecure about what you have to offer and that someone is coming for your spot. You’re probably right.
Envy is telling you that you need to move in her exact direction.
If she has the romance you’re looking for, you should ask her advice.
If she has business you want, you should ask her advice.
If she has the home, body, spotlight you want, you should ask her advice.
And if it all burns your ass too much to ask that bitch, then take it up with someone you can stand. But ask for the advice AND TAKE IT.
Likely, you won’t like whatever either one of them tell you, but that’s exactly how you’re in the position you’re in now. One thing is for sure, taking advice that hurts is far less painful than the scourge of the green monsters. And it’s much more beneficial to us all to have you in the game rather than seething on the sidelines.
See you on the other side.